The Primal Edge: Lead Boldly, Live Fully
You Are Already a Leader—What’s Next?
Leadership isn’t about titles or status—it’s about how we show up. And if you’re here, reading this, you already have within you the natural creativity, resourcefulness, and wholeness to lead powerfully.
But even the strongest leaders have moments when doubt creeps in, when uncertainty lingers just beneath the surface. Fear doesn’t always announce itself loudly. Sometimes, it’s sneaky—it shows up as hesitation, overthinking, and the need to control every outcome.
I learned this lesson firsthand when I faced my own physical reckoning: a hip replacement in August.
I have always been the kind of person who pushes my body to its limits. At just 49, my body called for something I never expected. They told me it was hip dysplasia—that it wasn’t my doing, but something inevitable.
Still, I see the world through my body, and the thought of a hip replacement felt like the end of life as I knew it. Doctors warned me of change, of limitation. But more than anything, this became a moment of transformation—one woven with fear, doubt, and the unknown possibility of what comes next.
If there’s one thing that will test my leadership and resilience, it’s being forced to surrender control over my own body. The fear was immediate, primal. Would I still be strong? Would I still be me?
My final view before surgery. I thought it was the end of me.
The Choice: Fear or Leadership?
Every leader faces this decision—daily, even hourly. Do we choose fear, which leads us to micromanage, second-guess, and hesitate? Or do we choose clarity, trust, and decisive action?
Perspective shapes everything. When we view a challenge as a threat, we react with adrenaline, with defensiveness. But when we see it as an opportunity, we focus on solutions, innovation, and growth.
And this isn’t just about me. Some of the best leaders—right here in Boulder, from the Leeds School of Business to the entrepreneurs and startups building legacies in our mountain town—don’t just tolerate uncertainty. They step into it. They lean into their values, into their communities, into the knowledge that fear shrinks us while bold action expands us.

Boulder Farmer’s Market, another salute to Boulder Businesses
Boulder as a Leadership Metaphor
Boulder, Colorado, is a place of extremes—where the flatirons stand firm while the weather shifts in an instant. It’s a place where people thrive in the discomfort of an uphill climb, knowing that resilience is built in the struggle. And it’s a place where leadership isn’t just a concept but a lived experience.
We are lucky to live in a place where safety isn’t a question, where we can walk alone at night, where community and innovation collide. From groundbreaking startups to the vibrant Boulder Farmers Market, which kicks off in early April and showcases the best of local sustainability and entrepreneurship, this city embodies the spirit of possibility.But true leadership asks us not just to enjoy these privileges but to pay them forward—to create businesses, cultures, and teams where others can step out of fear and into their own primal power.
This metaphor of Boulder took on new meaning for me after my hip replacement. Before the surgery, I pushed myself without limits, embracing every challenge as another opportunity to climb higher, go further. But after, I wasn’t the same. The body I had relied on to carry me effortlessly up trails and through long days of work had new limits. I resisted them at first, determined to prove that I could still operate in the same way. But Boulder itself, with its unrelenting nature, forced me to confront the truth: there is wisdom in balancing push and pull.
Leadership, like healing, isn’t about relentless forward motion. It’s about knowing when to lean into discomfort and when to allow space for recovery. It’s about understanding that limits don’t make us weak—they make us wise.The second half of my life, much like the second half of a long climb, will be about honoring both strength and surrender, about recognizing when to drive forward and when to let the landscape guide me.
Just as Boulder’s terrain teaches us endurance and adaptability, leadership asks us to embrace both ambition and patience. The best leaders don’t just focus on short-term wins—they play the long game, building legacies that last. And perhaps the greatest lesson of all is this: growth isn’t just about how high we climb—it’s about how fully we engage with the journey, every step of the way.
I Invite You to Lead Boldly
Where in your life are you pushing when a pause might serve you? Where are you holding back when boldness is calling? What would it feel like to trust both the climb and the moments of stillness?
Leadership isn’t just about forging ahead—it’s about navigating the dance between effort and ease. When we stop leading from fear and start leading from what truly matters, the path opens in unexpected ways.
So, what’s your Boulder? And how will you move with it?
The Primal Edge: Wake. Lead. Win.
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